people say the version of "you" that you, yourself imagines does not align with the version of "you" others see.

people say the version of "you" that you, yourself imagines does not align with the version of "you" others see. i desperately want to see myself through other's eyes, how can i go about this?

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  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Ask other people who know you what they think about you as a person.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      too scary, need esoteric means, and also people could lie/sugar coat things

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Cinammon and sugary, and softly spoken lies. You never know just how you look through other people's eyes.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Take Ketamine?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Nobody actually knows you unless you're the most shallow person ever sharing their every thought. The truth is something inbetween your idea of you, how others see you, and your shadow.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I asked my sister. She said quit looking at her boobs like a perv

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Just imagine someone at work/home acting the way you do.

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    set up a camera and record yourself for a few days

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Be humble and analyze your behavior aftet thr fact. Dont shame yourself for making mistakes. Improve where you can and take your time. Some days are worse than others. Different people will see you differently because most people largely act different around different social groups.

  5. 1 month ago
    Vicar-Devil

    In knowing the global opinion of yourself you become an adversary to illogic. The challenge is a spiritual and eternally distinguishing process. Not in any way is it a device to fit in.

    How limited you are by your own view of yourself, ties you to the majority concerns as a sheep of similar nature and there is safety in this.

    Do you really want to know?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >Do you really want to know?
      everyone around me seems to like me a lot more than i like myself, so yes, i would like to see what they see

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        you need to spend a LOT more of your limited free time thinking very hard about the positive things you like about other people and try and see which of those things align with how you are with others

      • 1 month ago
        Vicar-Devil

        do not confuse my attitude towards you with my personality. I am at peace with myself and thus I am at peace with the errors in logic that are creating depression and illness.

        You must help yourself, no-one else can build a better you.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Everyone around me hates me and abuses me and rapes my mind so they can abuse me more if I think anything remotely positive about myself or think or fantasize about having or being anything positive or desirable.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          not that Anon
          but, and not saying that your situation is not serious and such, but have you ever considered the possibility that it's your own mindset that keeps you in such a horror? It's maybe not really all the others.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            No, it's not my own mindset it's definitely other people's behavior.

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    If you wanna know how friends see you, ask yourself how you see them.

    If you wanna know what strangers think about you, ask yourself what you think about strangers.

    The answer is, nowhere near as much as you'd think, because the vast majority of people, even friends, live as if they are the protagonist, and you are just a side/background character.

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >i desperately want to see myself through other's eyes
    You totally look like a very stupid frog

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >how can i go about this?
    Well, you have to learn telepathy.
    It's possible, but I can't tell you how to learn it.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Telepathy is gay, there's people that only receive, and there's people that put thoughts inside of other people's minds. It's like having a penis or a vegana, you can't have both, and if you have both, then there's something wrong with you.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        duuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuune

  9. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Looking glass self

  10. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Hard to believe this is where my taxes are going.
    Could you hypothetically stick a usb in your computer and drop a few files of that good shit?

  11. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I've spent so long isolated from people that it actually no kidding surprises me when they tell me how I am. I legitimately feel as if they were referring to someone else, or as if they got the wrong idea or something. Truth of the matter is that, I don't even know who I am myself anymore, and the only people that can even as much as half try to describe the person I used to be are close relatives. And even they say some pretty unpleasant things from what I used to do way back in the days. I'm stuck between wanting to know, not caring, and not wanting to know because it could make me an even worse person than I already am.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >or as if they got the wrong idea or something
      They do, isolation changes you and they are way out of the loop by now. I laugh a little to myself when family members sometimes act as if I was the same person as ten years ago, or care about the same things anymore.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        The only thing past a specific age that they can say about what legitimately was happening in my life, is that I was alive. And that's even stretching it, because it wasn't living, but surviving. Sad.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      In the same boat. It really came to it's head when I got rid of my ex best friend. I'm trying to remember who I was before I met him over 10 years ago. That person seems gone now. Also the person that I was while friends with him is slowly going away. I'm mostly curious who I was back then just to understand the thought processes.

      Being alone or at least not surrounded by negative criticism can change you. People telling you not to do this or why are you doing that can really mess you up. Maybe being alone for a certain amount of time is the only path to being a true honest man. The walls are finally not under siege.

      Being alone makes more sense. Society is the one that changed.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Being alone is amazing and gives you so much time to think and grow as a person.
        I remember being warned once that "the less you are around other normal people the more unlike them you will become" as if that was a bad thing. I don't think it is.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          It's fine until you reach a point where you've spent so long on your own that you start to question if things are real or if you're hallucinating about stuff. Maybe that was just me developing schizophrenia over the course of years.

  12. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    The version of yourself you see in the mirror, is different than the one you see in the camera
    I just assume the camera version is closer to reality since it's worse.

  13. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Just take your view on yourself and make it 10 times shittier, that's pretty much it.

  14. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    It's a superficial matter, don't stoop to their level by concerning yourself with that. The enlightened person flips it around, and try to see the person in the way they see themselves. Don't go backwards!

  15. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    They all think I'm fricking retartet 🙁

  16. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >caring what other people think of you
    Pointless. If they don't get in your way, you should care less. Even if they absolutely despise you. No such thing as bad publicity, as they say. Energy is energy.
    >Rent free

  17. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Who cares what ''I'' think, ''I''m a dumbass.

    also

    Chesterton:
    >Whereas any good thing would make a person nod, we live in strange democracies, a million masks of God''
    That's not it verbatim but perhaps you could find it?

  18. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    The only things People can judge are appearance and action. It's very shallow, look in the mirror and try to imagine yourself as a stranger, how would you respond to that person? How do you treat people, and how do they respond, Is their reciprocation?

  19. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You become an eye-stealing serial killer ofc.

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