I'm going insane how do I make sure i get this girl I want.

I'm going insane how do I make sure i get this girl I want. She was my first love since highschool and several years later we are 25 and we hang out through mutual friends. She is absolutely gorgeus and we were having a great time talking and she even knows I like her and still invited me to a concert after she told me she broke up with her gf who she was dating at the time. Give me some /x/ spells or something it's driving me insane I need this woman I texted her to ask wha her days off were about 2 days ago and she hasn't responded since.

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  1. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    See the big picture. To be happy you must live in agreement with your nature. The whole and sole perk of being a male is that nobody will care about you. Whereas the sole perk of being a vegana is that all the men will be desperate to talk to you and give you free stuff spontaneously.The male nature is to be forever alone. On the female side, it is not all rosy, women hate to have a flock of ugly orbiters, and they hate it even more when there is physical contact with those. In other words women hate that too much men care about them. So everybody is unhappy, especially the men. Thanks to a twist, women are actually happy because, doing it for free, the chad orbiters will beat up the ugly orbiters for the sake of the women.
    So to be happy as a male you must rejoyce in being a loser. This is the only truth in the universe.

  2. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Get used to lonliness.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      See the big picture. To be happy you must live in agreement with your nature. The whole and sole perk of being a male is that nobody will care about you. Whereas the sole perk of being a vegana is that all the men will be desperate to talk to you and give you free stuff spontaneously.The male nature is to be forever alone. On the female side, it is not all rosy, women hate to have a flock of ugly orbiters, and they hate it even more when there is physical contact with those. In other words women hate that too much men care about them. So everybody is unhappy, especially the men. Thanks to a twist, women are actually happy because, doing it for free, the chad orbiters will beat up the ugly orbiters for the sake of the women.
      So to be happy as a male you must rejoyce in being a loser. This is the only truth in the universe.

      I can't accept this. anyone have an answer / advice I will accept and use?

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        choose, do you want the girl, or do you want to stop suffering?
        youre a high T alpha male, right? need sex need girl, its normal right?
        lol at your life moron

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Dont listen to these morons. But to me it sounds like shes “being friendly” aka leading you on.
        Also is she lesbian or something?

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          she could be. We used to date and she would cum bunches so I know she's Bi. When we hung out she would look at me a lot, textbook when people laugh or said a joke she'd look at me for a reaction, sustained eye-contact, but yes it could be she is just leading me on, especially since she hasn't answered my text for almost 30 hours. I talked to a mutual friend who said that she's been feeling depressed even before dating the girl who broke up with her so she might be in a state of mind where she doesn't even want a relationship and I'm willing to wait. my cope is she is scared of moving too quickly by answering my message about what days she works.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Okay so she at least has some attraction to you it seems. But what went wrong with your relationship before? Was it just casual and never progressed anywhere or was there a falling out?
            This current situation seems like you should be friendly and lightly supportive but maintain proper boundaries until she gets over her last relationship.

  3. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    The philosophical Taoist answer would be to first come to terms with the idea that you won’t get this girl, be completely at peace with this fact so that you recognize your desire as the source of your suffering and in recognizing this learn to overcome both your desire and suffering, and then if she does end up with you that’s just an added bonus.

    The magic Taoist answer would probably be to eat tree bark until you radiate sexual energy or some shit like that

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I suspected this was the case. I do believe that thinking one thing generates and manifests its opposite. I actually did do my best to realize that if this were to not end in my favor I need to find the light and peace and fulfillment within me to not fall into despair from thinking I've found the light in something beyond my self I can never have.

      Of course in the end I know i'll be find for sure because this has happened already and I got out the other side much stronger. the first time i was hitting on her until I found out she had a gf and I sperged out and said i was sorry for flirting with her as I didn't know she had a gf. but I still wanted to hang out as friends and I won't act weird as I did before. She took it very well and was very sweet about it. I cried a bit but got my shit together and become even stronger, started reading more, eating better, and that's when, after inviting her to a concert, she invited me to another one happening that weekend. a bit later she then told me that her gf broke up with her and didn't want to go, but then at the end decided she did want to go. The concert was fun and where all the eye contact and sustained attention and talking happened. I was absolutely smitten. We had a lot of fun talking and making her laugh was easy. and she made me laugh as well.

      In the end I was expecting a magic taoist answer but I know those are crapshots to even attempt

      Okay so she at least has some attraction to you it seems. But what went wrong with your relationship before? Was it just casual and never progressed anywhere or was there a falling out?
      This current situation seems like you should be friendly and lightly supportive but maintain proper boundaries until she gets over her last relationship.

      I was awful when we started dating, I was 17, a dumb moron kid with autism and adhd and she stuck by me for so long despite be being awful. we later broke up mutually some time after highschool ended. However, we remained on friendly terms, though we very rarely spoke. this changed when my brother who is best friends with her invited me to a bar where she was at and we went out as a group more and more because it was so fun the first time. though we still didn't speak very much. not until a month ago.

      Completely agree, situation calls for lightness

  4. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Why is 90% of /x/ lonely virgins looking to get a gf or stop watching porn?

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >/x/
      try EerieWeb. Hell, all of terminally online spaces

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      People not on the path think aping spirituality will get them astrology girls. It's desperation to appeal to what they think women want, like dudes who get way to into indie music or modern art or romcoms because they are desperate to appeal to women. They can't seem to grasp that women already know this and will avoid them even harder.

  5. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    you don't need a spell, homie. Just go talk to her. Rizz her up. It seems like shes interested in you. If she reached out and personally invited you to go out with here, she basically wants your penis inside her.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Not necessarily. A detail I didn't include is that she said that Steven, which is a mutual friend, wanted me to come and told her to invite me almost like she wouldn't want to make me think that she wanted to invite me. But the concert itself went very well we even ate out after and went back to my place with all our friends but she had to leave as soon as we got there.

  6. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Why are there two fires and no air? Bullshit graph.

  7. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Genuinely anon, it sounds like your life is going fine and it’s healing itself. But I must say, without using harsh words and calling names, it’s a bit pathetic that you can’t see the larger notion of this. In addition to making a thread on here of all places instead of another, more proper, board. I get it, you want some instant karma answer or an ego boost level thing, but look at what’s taking place for what it is. Your life seems to be giving you what you want and it just takes time. Value what you have, there are people who will never have this exact circumstance you did, let alone the chance to do it again with someone you clearly cared a lot about. Hearing this story made me cringe and yeah, very jealous, but that’s not how one should feel. You seem to be doing fine, be grateful and cherish it

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      you are most likely correct. thank you for the better perspective. I'll try to chill out the autism.

  8. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    All women want is a man who can provide for them, emotionally, physically, and/or fiscally
    They are basically still children, keep that in mind

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