I do not understand the notion "love yourself".

I do not understand the notion "love yourself". Like how the frick do I do that, do I go to mirror and say I love me? How do I love me when I'm just me? It doesn't make any fricking sense. Or like "do you hate yourself?" like what? What the frick does this mean, who is this me hating me? I'm just me, like what? How can I hate or love me when Im just me and nothing else. Do normies really eat this Hollywood drama bullshit third person narration?

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  1. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Technically "loving yourself" is understanding and emotionally supporting yourself(as would a love one)

    But when someone tell you to just "love yourself" they generally means to frick off and stop looking for love because they perceive you as unworthy of it

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      But there is nothing to support I'm just me. How do I support me when I'm just me, does me support me? I do not get it

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        You support & love yourself every single second but don't realize It

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        There multiple parts of you, that is use but different elements of you.
        You love yourself by helping those parts of yourself

  2. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I hate myself because I am mentally ill and it cripples me from doing things I actually want to do.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      You hate you? How. Illogical

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Then you should accept that and love it idk, maybe try christianity, they'd think God has made you that way and he loves you.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I hate myself because I can't do what I normally can do when pedophiles are harvesting louche, because I'm in a human vessel now and can't just teleport to them in their sleep and skin them alive.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I pray for a reversal of your soul fracturing and the return of what was taken from you, Anon.

  3. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    do you think love is saying i love you?
    love is to give everything you have, your body mind and soul for what you love.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      ie service without term or condition given with out imposition.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      The word love in English is completely fricking moronic it means literally anything you like to do. It has no impact

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        firstly if like meant love you wouldn't need 2 separate terms.
        secondly, you can give of yourself wholly to anything you can do
        thinking one word has the meaning of another is a fantastic way to hold yourself back

  4. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    There is a child inside you.
    That child is also you.
    Love that child, as a parent, since you are the adult now.

  5. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    This is pretty based fundamentally. Go further with the "who is doing the loving and what is being loved". There you'll find what love is, metaphysically.

  6. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Like how the frick do I do that, do I go to mirror and say I love me?

    remove all the obstacles that hinder you from loving yourself.
    in other words, forgive yourself for your shortcomings, inadequacies, mistakes, etc.!
    show grace to yourself!

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      in the same way you heal yourself.. you stop eating food that morons your body's ability to heal yourself, you move, you do sports, a healthy lifestyle.

      once all the obstacles that poison you are removed, the body heals itself of its own.

      in the same manner, when you remove all self-hatred through forgiveness, you will not only realize that you love yourself, but that you are Love itself, shining unimpeded forth...

      this then is the basic tool used to helping others. once you have healed yourself, you can penetrate others with this unconditional (agape) love.

  7. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Loving yourself isnt wishy washy feeling shit thats a misattribution because of the word love. Self love simply is doing what is right for you what you need to do instead of what simply feels good. You cant just love yourself before you actually earn it that is to say you make yourself a developed respectable indivual. Yes cleaning your room sucks but you do it because you love yourself and you believe youre worth it. Yes studying sucks but you love yourself enough to do so. Eating healthy too it sucks but you do it because you love yourself. Yes you could smoke weed all day but you dont because you love yourself. However in that same spirit letting go is sometimes also loving yourself, drinking with friends having a good time isnt neccesairely selfhate, only if its maladaptive to your functioning like an addiction. If you dont love yourself this is hard and the term might feel wishy washy and too abstract but essentially it boils down to doing consciously what is right for you instead of simply what feels good because you believe youre worth it to take care of yourself.

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